RONI

I am a 24-year-old female who is in an extremely weird situation. I have known Roni for two months since I started working in Wine & Co Gh. Ltd. He was very cute but a white man, the only problem was that He was my superior,and apart from that, he was way fatter than me and looks way older for his 27 years. So, we would be a little weird couple if we are together since i am also very skinny. Based on that physical discrepancy all my colleagues in the office kept teasing me about the possibility of him becoming my boyfriend.

Being myself full of prejudice I also kept talking stupid stuff about that. I even made up a couple of nicknames for him, such as: "obolo", "obiggy", etc. I kept teasing him that he could become my boyfriend if he gains weight and so on and so forth. I simply did not realize that during all that time he has had feelings for me.This was simply because i was in a loving relationship with Prince my then boy friend who will not give chance for any man to come my way. He was loving ,caring ,charming ,but above all he was unecssarily a jealous man..

Even though Roni and I were strictly friends and nothing else we use to share e-mails compliments and text messages together.Roni gives me admiring looks in the office which mostly makes me uncomfortable...My affection for Roni i will say was just platonic and nothing else . This was because my love was some where else.(Prince)

One fateful day,Roni sent me one of his dodgey text message which i received in front of my boy friend Prince. It was a common message expressing mixed feelings of love and friendship.Prince, my boyfriend in one of his jealous confrontations decided to fight for his love.upon smelling danger in the tone of the message.

He confronted Roni in a very abusive manner and embarrassed me in the presence of all colleagues in the office that both of us are flirting together.Roni knowing what he has caused kept his cool and dialogued like a real gentleman.. After this stormy argument he confessed to me that he has always loved me, but my sarcastic remarks about his weight, etc. made him think that I do not take him seriously.

The bottom line of all that is that I realized my own real feelings for Roni was growing day by day after Prince decided to put up that remote show in the office. I lost him (he told me that he has started dating another girl). That wasn't a great problem since my affection for Roni was increasing day after day. We ended up in bed a couple of times (we did not have real sex, we just hugged and talked for hours and hours) and he still insists on me spending some time with him like that, because he feels comfortable with me. However, the last time we were lying next to each other he told me not to turn my face towards him, because we will kiss, then we will hug and... we will not be friends anymore. He also told me that is his country it is normal for friends to lie next to each other hugging like us. I was really confused about all that because i realised an irrisistible desire for him and nothing could stop that.'not even him. I really loved him and I did not know what to do. Eventually the inevitable happened between us and it was just fun.I can still recall the events and anytime i do I smile..Ooh Goodness Another issue was that Roni after realising how uncomfortable the atmosphere was in the office :having to go out with a co worker,decided i quit the job as he finds me a container to run my own business.The Wine and Co. company eventually run out of stock and Roni had to go back to his country for summer.

It has been years since Roni left.We communicate on fon occassionally and send text messages but I have this strange thought, Even though I still love him and will love to meet him again, I wonder if I should keep going on like that for a little more than a month more or should I end this story right now? The more i give it a thought ,the more other men gather behind me with proposals.Should I fall in love or wait for Roni..Will he come back to marry me?I have a funny feeling that he will come.But if even he fails to come as he always say ,I know we have shared much fun together and i will always have that special place for him where he belonged.hmmm

A decade too long for a loving lady

After the first three years, she should have given up on Kevin. Something about him just kept pulling her back to him. It did not matter what he did, or how he showed her numerous times that he was not the one for her, She never gave up. She met this man when she was nineteen and now she is thirty, still alone and no Kevin.What a sad life she lived ,making a man, an ultimate goal in life, without exploring other goals and other opportunities that came her way.

Realizing after all this time, she hate herself very much. 

He(Kelvin) was a test from every angle. A test against her judgment, her morals, her intellect, her pride, her womanhood....The absolute worst a woman can have. And what was worse, She thought she was more in "love" with the fact of breaking him down. She never did.

Now, she cannot watch love stories, listen to overly romantic love songs, no jazz, nothing that could resurrect any memories of him. 

Being in a one-sided relationship is like inviting the devil into your heart to dance with you, seduce you with his good looks, make you laugh, make you cry, make you weep with ecstasy from the lovemaking. Only to wake up the next morning lying next to a fallacy. A demented illusion you do not recognize. Everytime he smile at about you, turns to judgment and disgust. This is how she felt when she was with Kevin. Nothing she ever did or said was right, and friends wonder what she saw in him, what made her stay as long as she did. How did she keep forgiving him after every infraction , with the degree of those infractions growing in intensity each and every time. She made herself a promise that she had to let him go, no matter how much she loved him or could not function without him, She had to. But , it had to take something drastic like sleeping with a coworker for her to leave him alone.

She was betrayed on both ends,  because the coworker wasn't woman enough to let her know she liked him or that he had hit on him . And Kelvin, testing her on every front ,actually thinking, she would still be with him after that.  Narcissism at it's finest, At long last she had to let this cat go. She had to force selfself  not to remember anything about him and believe me, it's a battle everyday.  She had to realize she never really lost anything, She is old enough to know that real love don't feel like this. Real love will never ask you to compromise your beliefs, or ask you to stop being your real self..And it's through the grace and mercy of God, that she was able to finally let him go,  How could she have been lost for so long?    

A decade was a decade  too long.

WHO IS WISE?

There was once an Irishman and an Englishman who lived next door to each other. The Irishman owned a hen and each morning would look in his garden and pick up one of his hen's eggs for breakfast. One day he looked into his garden and saw that the hen had laid an egg in the Englishman's garden. He was about to go next door when he saw the Englishman pick up the egg. The Irishman ran up to the Englishman and told him that the egg belonged to him because he owned the hen. The Englishman disagreed because the egg was laid on his property.
They argued for a while until finally the Irishman said, "In my family we normally solve disputes by the following actions: I kick you in the balls and time how long it takes you to get back up. Then you kick me in the balls and time how long it takes for me to get up, whoever gets up quicker wins the egg."
The Englishman agreed to this and so the Irishman found his heaviest pair of boots and put them on, he took a few steps back, then ran toward the Englishman and kicked as hard as he could in the balls. The Englishman fell to the floor clutching his nuts howling in agony for 30 minutes. Eventually the Englishman stood up and said, "Now it's my turn to kick you."
The Irishman replied,

"Keep the fucking egg!"

WOMEN ARE COMPLEX

If you kiss her, you are not a gentleman
If you don't, you are not a man
If you praise her, she thinks you are lying
If you don't, you are good for nothing
If you agree to all her likes, you are a wimp
If you don't, you are not understanding
If you visit her often, she thinks it is boring
If you don't, she accuses you of double-crossing
If you are well dressed, she says you are a playboy
If you don't, you are a dull boy
If you are jealous, she says it's bad
If you don't, she thinks you do not love her
If you attempt a romance, she says you didn't respect her
If you don't, she thinks you do not like her
If you are a minute late, she complains it's hard to wait
If she is late, she says that's a girl's way
If you visit another man, you're not putting in "quality time"
If she is visited by another woman, "oh it's natural, we are girls"
If you kiss her once in a while, she professes you are cold
If you kiss her often, she yells that you are taking advantage
If you fail to help her in crossing the street, you lack ethics
If you do, she thinks it's just one of men's tactics for seduction
If you stare at another woman, she accuses you of flirting
If she is stared by other men, she says that they are just admiring
If you talk, she wants you to listen
If you listen, she wants you to talk

In short:

So simple, yet so complex
So weak, yet so powerful
So confusing, yet so desirable
So damning, yet so wonderful...

...WOMEN!

MEN WILL ALWAYS BE MEN

If you kiss him, you are easy If you don't, you are frigid If you praise him, he thinks you are fake If you don't, he thinks you are ungrateful If you agree to all his likes, you are submissive If you don't, you are controling If you visit him often, he thinks you're desperate If you don't, he thinks you're not interested If you are well dressed, he says you are vain If you don't, you are a dog If you are jealous, he say's you're possessive If you're not, then he fools around If you attempt a romance, he say's you are cheap If you don't, he thinks you are cold If you are a minute late, he says you are fussy If he is late, he says you're impatient If you visit another man, you are fooling around If he is visited by another woman, "oh we're just friends" If you kiss him once in a while, he says you're too shy If you kiss him often, he says you're too forward If he fails to help you in crossing the street, he brings up the feminist movement If he does, he expects to be rewarded If you stare at another woman, he says you're jealous If he is stared by other men, boy, you're in big trouble.. If you talk, it's always too much If you listen, it's never enough
In short:

So complex, yet so predictable So macho, yet so sensitive (usually to their own feelings) So confusing, yet so funny but most of all, So irritating, yet so irresistible

...MEN!

MY WIFE

JOKES--------A man is almost about to die

As he lay on his deathbed, the man confided to his wife, "I cannot die without telling you the truth. I cheated on you throughout our whole marriage. All those nights when I told you I was working late, I was with other women. And not just one woman either, but I've slept with dozens of them."His wife looked at him calmly and said,

"Why do you think I gave you the poison?"

MONEY GIVES YOU MATURITY

In the early 1930's, a farmer and his wife went to a fair.
The farmer was fascinated by the airplanes and asked a pilot how much a ride would cost.
"$10 for 3 minutes," replied the pilot. "That's too much," said the farmer.The pilot thought for a second and then said, "I'll make you a deal. If you and your wife ride for 3 minutes without uttering a sound, the ride will be free. But if you make a sound, you'll have to pay $10.
" The farmer and his wife agreed and went for a wild ride. After they landed, the pilot said to the farmer, "I want to congratulate you for not making a sound. You are a brave man.
" "Maybe so," said the farmer, "But I gotta tell ya,

I almost screamed when my wife fell out."

We All Have our Guilts

Sometimes, we see our problems so complicated that we think we are the only unfortunate creations.The truth is, we all have our short comings one way or the other.Let's build our self confidence so that we can face realities anytime we are comfronted with challenges in life

A young couple were on their honeymoon. The husband was sitting in the bathroom on the edge of the bathtub saying to himself, "Now how can I tell my wife that I've got really smelly feet and that my socks absolutely stink? I've managed to keep it from her while we were dating, but she's bound to find out sooner or later that my feet stink. Now how do I tell her?"Meanwhile, the wife was sitting in the bed saying to herself, "Now how do I tell my husband that I've got really bad breath? I've been very lucky to keep it from him while we were courting, but as soon as he's lived with me for a week, he's bound to find out. Now how do I tell him gently?"The husband finally plucks up enough courage to tell his wife and so he walks into the bedroom. He walks over to the bed, climbs over to his wife, puts his arm around her neck, moves his face very close to hers and says, "Darling, I've a confession to make."And she says, "So have I, love."To which he replies,

"Don't tell me, you've eaten my socks."My lovely readers you know what he means.someones trouble can let you keep mute on yours.

let us not look down on ourselves for there are greater misfortunes worse than yours.

THE REWARD

There are so many earthly rewards that many of us fight for.These rewards are sometimes bloody and some times worthwhile.But our reward is in heaven says the lord.

Many many years ago, there was a millionaire, who collected live alligators. He kept them in the pool at back of his mansion. The millionaire also had a beautiful daughter who was single.

One day he decides to throw a huge party, and during the party he announces, "My dear guests . . . I have a proposition to every man here. I will give one million dollars or my daughter to the man who can swim across this pool full of alligators and emerge alive!" As soon as he finished his last word, there was the sound of a large splash!! There was one guy in the pool swimming with all he could and screaming out of fear. The crowd cheered him on as he kept stroking as though he was running for his life. Finally, he made it to the other side with only a torn shirt and some minor injuries. The millionaire was impressed. He said, "My boy that was incredible! Fantastic! I didn't think it could be done! Well I must keep my end of the bargain. Do you want my daughter or the one million dollars?" The guy says, "Listen, I don't want your money, nor do I want your daughter! I want the person who pushed me in that water!"
This would have been a result of a bloody experience but readers i want you to know that money and pleasure is not every thing.

Ato Amissah-Koomson: BEWARE OF FALSE PROPHETS

Ato Amissah-Koomson: BEWARE OF FALSE PROPHETS
THE BIBLE

WHEN IS JESUS COMING?

Would you be SURPRISED to realize that JESUS has told YOU every week of your life EXACTLY WHEN HE'S COMING BACK?
No, we DON'T know "the day nor the hour", but He has told everyone of us exactly when He's coming back!

Do you agree that the earth's monthly cycle is determined by earth's relationship to the moon? Do you agree that the earth's yearly cycle is determined by earth's relationship to the sun? Do you agree that the earth's 24-hour day cycle is determined by earth's relationship to the sun and moon?

Then what in the heavens, astronomically speaking, determines our 7 day weekly cycle?

You're right! NOTHING! So where did we get a 7 day week? It goes all the way back to Creation in the Book of Genesis,

God created the earth in 6 days, and rested on the Seventh Day. Why did God create a 7 day week? Why not a 5 day week or a 10 day week? Maybe God was trying to tell us something! In addition, why is the number 7 called God's number in the Bible?

"Because it's the perfect number, or it signifies completion" you may reply. But why is 7 a perfect number? and why does 7 signify completion?

The answer will become apparent!The apostle Peter provides the key to our understanding in 2 Peter, chapter 3 where Peter is discussing the Second Coming of Christ in the verses both before and immediately after verse 8. In verse 8 he states that "one day is with the Lord, as a thousand years, and a thousand years as one day."

Frequently, this is interpreted to mean that since the Lord is outside of time, that whether it's a day or a thousand years, it's all the same to Him. But God ALWAYS deals with humanity in precise periods of time. Everything has its Appointed Time. There was :a time for Christ to come to the earth, A time for the crucifixion, A time for the resurrection AND a time for the Second Coming

though only God knows the day and the hour.Two concepts are repeated over and over throughout the scriptures:

1) Everything has an Appointed Time and

2) the number 7 is God's number.

(6 days of creation and the 7th day as the Sabbath) is apparent in numerous Bible stories.

(1) The Israelites marched around Jericho once a day for 6 days and 7 times on the 7th day then the walls fell down. The victory was delivered to Israel. (Josh. 6:3-6)

(2) After the Lord brought down fire on Mt. Carmel and consumed Elijah's sacrifice and the priests of Baal were destroyed, Elijah prayed for rain 6 times and nothing happened.

When he prayed the 7th time, there appeared "a cloud as small as a man's hand" and rain poured out from heaven. (1 Kings 18:38-46)

(3) Jesus predicted to His disciples that some of them would not see death until they saw Him coming in His kingdom. (Matt 16:27,28) Six days after that statement, on the 7th day, Peter, James and John witnessed Jesus' transfiguration into divine glory. (Matt 17:1-9)

The 6 days of creation = 6000 years of earth's history.

The 7th day = the beginning of the 7th 1000 year millennial period when Christ returns in glory to take the righteous to heaven to be with Him.

(4) In the 4th commandment, 6 days are allotted for man, the 7th day is for worship of the Lord on the Sabbath. (Ex 20: 8-11) (See also Heb. 4:1-9)

(5) In John, Chapter 1, Jesus is seen with John the Baptist before traveling to the wedding at Cana where He performed His first miracle. The first four days are found in verses 19, 29, 35 and 43. On the fourth day, Jesus makes the trip to Cana and is not seen again until the 7th day in Chapter 2, at which time He performs the miracle of turning water into wine. The wedding symbolizes Jesus, the bridegroom, returning for His bride, the church.Other interesting examples are:

(6) Israel was to work the soil for 6 years and rest the soil in the 7th year. (Ex 23:10,11)

(7) There were 6 steps up to Solomon's throne which rested in its splendor on the 7th step, symbolizing the power and glory of God. (2 Chron 9:17, 18)

(8) Young king-apparent, Joash, was hid in the temple for 6 years and then crowned king in the 7th year - on the Seventh-day Sabbath. (2 Kings 11:3-12)

(9) Noah was 600 years old at the time of the flood - the judgment of the earth. (Gen 7:6)The Bible is filled with many other such examples. So there you have it - THE GREAT WEEK OF TIME! God created a 7 day week (6 days of creation and the 7th day Sabbath) to symbolize the 6000 years of history of this world to be followed by the 7th 1000 years of millennial "Sabbath Rest" in heaven.

So there it is my readers : Why is "7" God's perfect number? From the time the Garden of Eden was created until Eden is restored by God in the earth made new will be 7000 year

Jesus is coming...He is "Even at the door!" (Matt 24:32,33)

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BEWARE OF FALSE PROPHETS

Recently, I was intrigued to discover that we are, most likely, in the last generation before the Rapture.

How do I know? Well, a prophecy expert told me so! According to this man, every sign of the last times has now been fulfilled and the Rapture is coming.

"Many will say to Me in that day, 'Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in Your name, cast out demons in Your name, and done many wonders in Your name?' "And then I will declare to them, 'I never knew you; depart from Me, you who practice lawlessness!' Matthew 7:22-23

It is impossible to estimate just how much money is extracted yearly from the victims of faith prophets. And the sad truth is fake prophets will always be with us. The small but irreducible percentage of people that will believe anything, no matter how ridiculous, will continue to dump cash into the fake prophets racket.

This however,is damaging our world of today and creating confusion to the already confused souls.

some of the damges these fake prohets cause are

1. Interference with proper treatment of patients.

2. Financial loss to the victims.

3. Diversion of vital church resources.

4. Blaspheming against the Holy Spirit by imitating gifts.

5. Perverting the gospel of "faith" with false doctrines.

6. Teaching a wicked generation to look for signs.

7. Confusing an already confused world.

8. Offering false hope to the sick, elderly and afflicted.


Let us all rise and pray against these fake prophets of our time

How To Know When It's Over

There are few things in life that are harder on a person than the time when they realize that the love they have worked so hard at, and spent so much time on, is finally over. For some, this realization is a complete shock and for others, they have seen the writing on the wall for some time now.

Breakup signs are often very difficult to spot, primarily because the people involved often do not want to admit that the relationship has failed. And unless something comes along and hits them in the face, telling them it's over; the natural tendency is to try to work through the problems. This happens more so when the couple have been together for a while.

The question that remains, therefore, is at what point do you really know that it's over?
First lets start with the glaring signs that the relationship is over:

1. You catch your partner in the act of having an unforgivable affair.
2. Your partner uses physical violence against you.
3. You argue non-stop about everything. You can't agree on anything.

The above are obvious, any of the three things occurring above, ESPECIALLY NUMBER TWO, are sure signs that the relationship is coming to an, often abrupt, end.

There are however some other signs to look out for. Sometimes it is necessary to accept the painful fact that the relationship you are in is just not good for you. While I am usually the staunchest advocate for the "you can make it through anything as long as you have love" club, even I have to admit that there are situations where one or both of the partners are just better off apart.

The most common instance of this is when one partner is INTENTIALLY holding the other partner back. When two people have separate dreams and goals, friction can occur, especially if neither of them are willing to compromise. In some instances, however, jealousy leads one of the partner's to be excessively controlling of the other. In these situations, if they are UNRESOLVABLE, it is better to leave than stay.

Other reasons to leave include:

1. You realize that you don't love your partner.
2. You find yourself thinking more and more about how good single life was.
3. You realize that your partner doesn't love you, but is with you because they don't want to hurt you.
4. You have no common interests or goals.
5. You find that you cannot stand their annoying little habits, and they won't change.
6. You find it impossible to be yourself around your partner.
7. Your partner cuts you down, makes you feel bad about yourself, and constantly devalues your goals and ideas.

Under no circumstances should anyone stay in a relationship that is bad for them, just because they feel that being in a relationship, even a bad one, is better than being alone.

Who do you think she is?

We met when I was having my attachment at one of the multinational companies in Takoradi.

She seemed so nervous, so tender, so delicate and most of all flamboyantly young.  I looked at her, her eyes so beautiful, so full of hopes, full of dreams unfinished, full of expectations. They made me want to go to her, console her; tell her everything would be okay.  I looked at her. She smiled. 

There was nothing extra ordinary about her. She was just a normal girl, a young lady with dreams of her own, living in another world – a world full of hopes n dreams . I wanted to be with her. I found myself getting involved. I found myself feeling things I hadn’t felt in a long time. We talked.  Her carefree laugh,  her gleaming eyes. She smiled.  

I started cancelling my meetings to stay with her.  I wanted to touch her hand, hold her in my arms, tell her how much I ached for her. But I knew it was wrong. Completely illogical. I promised not to think about her, yet I found myself wondering about her. I felt cold. Needing the warmth of her smile. She told me she liked me. I never said I loved her. She said she couldn’t be with me but she was mad to be with me. I never said how much I ached for her. I told her it was wrong. She was committed and so was I. We had relationships and we loved our partners.  She said she was crazy about me and was sorry to have bothered me. I never told her why my eyes were watery. I ached inside. She smiled.

Her thoughts haunted me. Our talks made my heart melt. I knew it could never happen, because I loved my fiancée. She loved her guy. I tried to find a way out. To wake up,  to forget her.  

Not every feeling has a name. Not every relation can be told. She told me she loved my smile. I never told her she was the reason for it. She touched my fingers; I didn’t draw my hand back. All I could look at was her beautiful dreamy eyes. I told myself my fiancée was way better looking; still she was all I could look at. Her last day at work, I ached to hold her.  She came to me, “I love my guy, still I can’t live without u in my life everyday, I don’t know what it is and I am sorry for being this way”. “I... I don’t know what to say”, I wanted to say so much yet I was at a loss for words.  I cried silently for her, staring into those beautiful eyes. “I’ll miss u …” she said. Those eyes full of tears, and yet I couldn’t say a thing.

I watched her go from my office window. I watched her walk silently to the main gate, her head bowed down, and arms folded holding her handbag to her chest. I wanted to shout, I wanted to stop her. I wanted to hate myself for feeling this way. I loathed myself for letting her go. She turned to look at me. The tear in my eye, found its way to my cheek. She cried,I wept.

My Secret Love

I first saw her two years ago at a university dance show where she participated.

She looked so sparkling and beautiful. I couldn't take my eyes off her. Then, I found out that one of my friends was also good friends with her. In my last semester in university, I got to meet her couple of times through her (my friend).We became greeting friends(hello friends) Unfortunately, I was so shy that I didnt have the guts to start a conversation with her.

Coincidently, one time she was also there when we all hung out at the club. I secretly hoped that she didn't have a fiance!! really hoped that I would get to talk to her, but I missed the chance.The gut was still not there.The only voice that spoke to me was the voice of fear and panic,as another side of me kept saying "Be a Man"

Bravely i said in my spirit "Yes i am a man"but the more i gather the confidence to move forward the greater my cells and tissues vibrate with fear. I wish I had talked!!

We all graduated, and I have no way to ever be in touch with her but, I cannot stop thinking about her. I even lost interest in other ladies--just because I picture her and miss her everytime I see someone else. I dont know if this was infatuation,lust or if I have started to like(possibly love)her.

But how could this happen I mean, I barely know her, and with all the crazy feelings I was having I didnt know what to do!

The funny side of it is that,now i have an un-imaginable confidence, a lions heart,and a poised ego to face all class of beauties,however,she can not be located anywhere in the wonderest atlass mind..hmm

I could only hope and pray to God that our paths could cross again in the future someday... and that even though we may never meet again,or have the chance of marry, I truly wish that she achieves whatever her heart desires in life and be successful at anything she dares or wish for. I miss her so much!!

My wedding

A love that never ends,
That's what I feel for you.
From the instant you came into my life,
I know our love was true.

Through all the pain,
Through all the strife,
I swore to one, I swore to all,
I swore you would forever be my wife.

I learned over time and distance,
I learned not to trust.
With suspicion and loathing,
My heart only filled with lust.

Then you rewrote the book,
and harbored a new beginning.
Now I take your hand,
The only one worthy to wear this ring.

My heart now spills with joy,
The love for you boiling over.
Together "we" forming one,
For you, my wife, my friend, my lover.

The Aftermath of a Breakup

Hmm..........,Personally,I have broken a lot of innocent hearts,I feel bad sometimes if i sit to recall the events and the occurance.It doesnt seem very pleasant, but it happened anyway and i have no choice now but to regret the past any grief for the innocent souls who were victims of the circumstance.

I have now taken a different turn and have vowed not to break anymore hearts because I, at a point had to pay dearly for my actions as i suffered a brutal,un-understanding breakup. The aftermath of a breakup is just a nightmare in the day.

The aftermath of a breakup is definitely one of the hardest processes in life to go through, especially if your ex was your "first," as in your first girlfriend or boyfriend. The time it takes to recover may take two weeks to two years. There's no doubt that if you still like them, from time to time, you still think of ways on how to get your ex back.

Perhaps the following things still affect you.You go to the library to try and get some studying done and firmly say to yourself, "You know what, my ex isn't important right now... what's important is trying to pass this exam." It happened to me on campus too u know?

You're doing well for the first ten minutes, and then the problems start getting harder and more confusing. As you delve deeper, random words, symbols, and numbers start to remind you of your previous girlfriend or boyfriend. You try to shake it off and take your eyes off your textbook, only to see a nice couple holding hands walking pass right in front of you.

Now your mind is completely on your ex. Hahahaahaha....... just like you see here

You pack your books, and head back to your apartment.As you are driving home you turn on the radio. You've never really paid attention to music lyrics, now you wonder why every song is either about love, sex, or a breakup. You keep changing the radio station but there's just too much "love" going on. You turn the radio off. You can't even listen to one song of the Beatles anymore. Rock and R&B also don't do much help. Why did Ne-Yo have to sing a song called "So Sick of Love Songs."

Even though it was one of your favorite, it can't be listened to anymore.You get home and your friends call you to invite you out for dinner and a movie. You go out to 'jamm' with them but it's not the same. You feel restricted to talk only about what your friends are talking about, instead of just comfortably talking about anything you want.

So for the most part, you politely sit there pretending to know what's going on, but inside something is missing.Things cant just be right,'massa' Of course, you're going to smile as much as you can to make it seem like everything is alright. After all, you don't want to burden the party with your sorrows.

Finally you guys watch the movie. As the movie plays, you miss the feeling of cuddling next your ex and their skin softly touching yours. Usually after the movie you just ramble on about what you liked or disliked, but with your friends you are a little more reserved with your opinions. Anyway,"Opinions they say are like noses"


You thank them for taking you out, and head back home again.

The aftermath of the breakup process definitely hurts and getting back together with your ex isn't completely out of the picture.its still ringing bells. You can try if you still care..For me i never did ever in my life.I always let go..But that is because there was always a queue.dont mind me and dont take my footsteps my dear, u always must follow your heart.

You can still win your ex back even after a hurtful breakup.Remember, dont try to payback."Two wrongs will definately not make a right"Im out!!

Appreciate your Mother

A man was sick and tired of going to work every day while his wife stayed home.
He wanted her to see what he went through so he prayed: 'Dear Lord: I go to work every day and put in 8 hours while my wife merely stays at home. I want her to know what I go through. So, please allow her body to switch with mine for a day. Amen!' God, in his infinite wisdom, granted the man's wish. The next morning, sure enough, the man awoke as a woman. He arose, cooked breakfast for his mate, Awakened the kids, Set out their school clothes, Fed them breakfast, Packed their lunches, Drove them to school, Came home and picked up the dry cleaning, Took it to the cleaners And stopped at the bank to make a deposit, Went grocery shopping, Then drove home to put away the groceries, Paid the bills and balanced the check book. He cleaned the cat's litter box and bathed the dog. Then, it was already 01P.M. And he hurried to make the beds, Do the laundry, vacuum, Dust, And sweep and mop the kitchen floor. Ran to the school to pick up the kids and got into an argument with them on the way home. Set out milk and cookies and got the kids organized to do their homework. Then, set up the ironing board and watched TV while he did the ironing. At 4:30 he began peeling potatoes and washing vegetables for salad, breaded the pork chops and snapped fresh beans for supper. After supper, He cleaned the kitchen, Ran the dishwasher, Folded laundry, Bathed the kids, And put them to bed. At 09 P.M . He was exhausted and, though his daily chores weren't finished, he went to bed where he was expected to make love, which he managed to get through without complaint. The next morning, he awoke and immediately knelt by the bed and said: - 'Lord, I don't know what I was thinking. I was so wrong to envy my wife's being able to stay home all day. Please, oh! Oh! Please, let us trade back. Amen!' The Lord, in his infinite wisdom, replied: 'My son, I feel you have learned your lesson and I will be happy to change things back to the way they were. You'll just have to wait nine months, though. You got pregnant last night.'

OOOoooh I Love my Mum what about you?

True Love

It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly

gentleman in his 80s arrived to have stitches removed from

his thumb. He said he was in a hurry as he had an

appointment at 9:00. I stood and watched his vital signs as he took

a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone

would be able to see him, I saw him looking at his watch.A nurse at the ward since was not busy with another patient, decided to

evaluate his wound. On examining it the nurse saw it was well

healed, so he talked to one of the doctors and got the needed

supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound.While the nurse was

taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another

doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a

hurry. The gentleman told me no, that he needed to go to

the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.I inquired

as to her health. He told me that she had been there for a

while! As she is a victim of Alzheimer's disease.As we

talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.

He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had

not recognized him in five years now.

I was surprised and asked him, 'And you still go every

morning, even though she doesn't know who you

are?'He smiled as he patted my hand and said,

'She doesn't know me but I still know who she is.'

I had to hold back tears as he left, I had goose bumps on my arm

and thought, 'That is the kind of love I want in my

life. True love is neither physical nor romantic.True love

is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and

will not be.Peace is seeing a sunset and knowing who to

thank. The happiest people don't necessarily have the

best of everything; they just make the best of everything

they have.I hope you share this with someone you care

about, I just did. Life isn't about how to survive the

storm but how to dance in the rain.The road to success is

not straight. There is a curve called Failure, a loop

called Confusion, speed bumps called Friends, red lights

called Enemies, caution lights called Family. You will have

flats called Jobs.But, if you have a spare called

Determination, an engine called Perseverance, insurance

called Faith, a driver called Almighty God, you will make

it to a place called Success.

Take this quotes for your day

"Anything in life worth having is worth working for."

"Success often comes to those who dare to act. It seldom goes to the timid who
are ever afraid of the consequences

"Success is never ending, failure is never final

"I just love when people say I can’t do something because all my life people said
I wasn’t going to make it."

"Great thoughts speak only to the thoughtful mind, but great actions speak to all
mankind.

"Obstacles are those frightful things you can see when you take your eyes off
your goal

"It takes a strong fish to swim against the current. Even a dead one can float with
it."

"You will never find time for anything. You must make it."

"Remove failure as an option."

WHAT WOMEN WANT IN MEN

What I Want In A Man, Original List ... (at age 22)



1. Handsome
2. Charming
3. Financially Successful
4. A Caring Listener
5. Witty
6. In Good Shape
7. Dresses with Style
8. Appreciates the Finer Things
9. Full of Thoughtful Surprises
10. An Imaginative, Romantic Lover


What I Want In A Man, Revised List ... (at age 32)


1. Nice Looking - preferably with hair on his head
2. Opens car doors, holds chairs
3. Has enough money for a nice dinner at restaurant
4. Listens more than he talks
5. Laughs at my jokes at appropriate times
6. Can carry in all the groceries with ease
7. Owns at least one tie
8. Appreciates a good home cooked meal
9. Remembers Birthdays and Anniversaries
10. Seeks romance at least once a week


What I Want In A Man, Revised List ... (at age 42)


1. Not too ugly - bald head OK
2. Doesn't drive off until I'm in the car
3. Works steady - splurges on dinner at McDonalds on occasion
4. Nods head at appropriate times when I'm talking
5. Usually remembers the punchlines of jokes

Kissing Tips You Should Know

Here are some basic, yet important kissing tips

Great Breath

This is very important. Make sure you brush your teeth before going out on your date. There is nothing worse than kissing someone with bad breath. If your date consists of having something to eat before the actual kiss, make sure you have a mint on hand to take right after you finish eating. Don't take the mint just before the kiss or chew on gum. You don't want to have something in your mouth when you kiss.

Moist Lips

You want your lips to be slightly moist when you kiss. Run your tongue over your lips once before you kiss. Don't wear lip gloss because that tends to make the kiss too gooey. And don't wear a lot of lipstick unless you want your partner to wear it too after the kiss. Slightly moist lips makes it easier to move your lips over your partner's and gives both you and your partner a more pleasant experience.

Positioning

Stand close to your partner. As the two of you move closer together tilt your head slightly. If you can see which way your partner's head is tilting, tilt your head slightly in the opposite direction.

Close Eyes

Just before your lips meet, close your eyes. Some people prefer to leave their eyes open during the kiss. But until you know what your partner prefers, it is best to close your eyes.

Open Lips

Open your mouth slightly and place your lips over your partner's lips. Do not hold your breath! Breath through your nose. As your lips meet, press them gently over your partner's. You may wish to move your lips in a slow, circular motion or just leave them still over your partners.

Closed Lips

This is like the type of kiss you'd give your grandma or aunt. Instead of opening your mouth when your lips meet, keep them closed. This is also a good way of letting your partner know this is as far as it goes. It also makes a great hello/good-bye kiss or a great first time kiss if you're nervous.

Faith

Petr Čech of Chelsea F0otball Club in his protective headgear after the suffering a butt.

Petr,even though not phisically fit believes he can still make an impact in the history of football.With faith u can do all things exceedingly beyond imagination. Believing you can make it is one thing,and having the faith is also another.believing is human feeling but having the faith is backed by heavenly direction or guidance.

A woman who lived in a country town wished to sell her house and furniture.

It was in the winter with snow so deep it was almost impossible for cars or wagons to reach her door.

As she had asked God to sell her furniture to the right person for the right price she was unmindful of appearances.

She polished the furniture, pushed it into the middle of the room and prepared to sell it.

She said: "I never looked out of the window, I simply trusted God's promises."

In miraculous ways people drove up and all the furniture was sold, and the house also, without paying any commission to an agent.
Faith never looks out of the window, it simply prepares for the blessing asked for.