Who do you think she is?

We met when I was having my attachment at one of the multinational companies in Takoradi.

She seemed so nervous, so tender, so delicate and most of all flamboyantly young.  I looked at her, her eyes so beautiful, so full of hopes, full of dreams unfinished, full of expectations. They made me want to go to her, console her; tell her everything would be okay.  I looked at her. She smiled. 

There was nothing extra ordinary about her. She was just a normal girl, a young lady with dreams of her own, living in another world – a world full of hopes n dreams . I wanted to be with her. I found myself getting involved. I found myself feeling things I hadn’t felt in a long time. We talked.  Her carefree laugh,  her gleaming eyes. She smiled.  

I started cancelling my meetings to stay with her.  I wanted to touch her hand, hold her in my arms, tell her how much I ached for her. But I knew it was wrong. Completely illogical. I promised not to think about her, yet I found myself wondering about her. I felt cold. Needing the warmth of her smile. She told me she liked me. I never said I loved her. She said she couldn’t be with me but she was mad to be with me. I never said how much I ached for her. I told her it was wrong. She was committed and so was I. We had relationships and we loved our partners.  She said she was crazy about me and was sorry to have bothered me. I never told her why my eyes were watery. I ached inside. She smiled.

Her thoughts haunted me. Our talks made my heart melt. I knew it could never happen, because I loved my fiancée. She loved her guy. I tried to find a way out. To wake up,  to forget her.  

Not every feeling has a name. Not every relation can be told. She told me she loved my smile. I never told her she was the reason for it. She touched my fingers; I didn’t draw my hand back. All I could look at was her beautiful dreamy eyes. I told myself my fiancée was way better looking; still she was all I could look at. Her last day at work, I ached to hold her.  She came to me, “I love my guy, still I can’t live without u in my life everyday, I don’t know what it is and I am sorry for being this way”. “I... I don’t know what to say”, I wanted to say so much yet I was at a loss for words.  I cried silently for her, staring into those beautiful eyes. “I’ll miss u …” she said. Those eyes full of tears, and yet I couldn’t say a thing.

I watched her go from my office window. I watched her walk silently to the main gate, her head bowed down, and arms folded holding her handbag to her chest. I wanted to shout, I wanted to stop her. I wanted to hate myself for feeling this way. I loathed myself for letting her go. She turned to look at me. The tear in my eye, found its way to my cheek. She cried,I wept.

My Secret Love

I first saw her two years ago at a university dance show where she participated.

She looked so sparkling and beautiful. I couldn't take my eyes off her. Then, I found out that one of my friends was also good friends with her. In my last semester in university, I got to meet her couple of times through her (my friend).We became greeting friends(hello friends) Unfortunately, I was so shy that I didnt have the guts to start a conversation with her.

Coincidently, one time she was also there when we all hung out at the club. I secretly hoped that she didn't have a fiance!! really hoped that I would get to talk to her, but I missed the chance.The gut was still not there.The only voice that spoke to me was the voice of fear and panic,as another side of me kept saying "Be a Man"

Bravely i said in my spirit "Yes i am a man"but the more i gather the confidence to move forward the greater my cells and tissues vibrate with fear. I wish I had talked!!

We all graduated, and I have no way to ever be in touch with her but, I cannot stop thinking about her. I even lost interest in other ladies--just because I picture her and miss her everytime I see someone else. I dont know if this was infatuation,lust or if I have started to like(possibly love)her.

But how could this happen I mean, I barely know her, and with all the crazy feelings I was having I didnt know what to do!

The funny side of it is that,now i have an un-imaginable confidence, a lions heart,and a poised ego to face all class of beauties,however,she can not be located anywhere in the wonderest atlass mind..hmm

I could only hope and pray to God that our paths could cross again in the future someday... and that even though we may never meet again,or have the chance of marry, I truly wish that she achieves whatever her heart desires in life and be successful at anything she dares or wish for. I miss her so much!!

My wedding

A love that never ends,
That's what I feel for you.
From the instant you came into my life,
I know our love was true.

Through all the pain,
Through all the strife,
I swore to one, I swore to all,
I swore you would forever be my wife.

I learned over time and distance,
I learned not to trust.
With suspicion and loathing,
My heart only filled with lust.

Then you rewrote the book,
and harbored a new beginning.
Now I take your hand,
The only one worthy to wear this ring.

My heart now spills with joy,
The love for you boiling over.
Together "we" forming one,
For you, my wife, my friend, my lover.

The Aftermath of a Breakup

Hmm..........,Personally,I have broken a lot of innocent hearts,I feel bad sometimes if i sit to recall the events and the occurance.It doesnt seem very pleasant, but it happened anyway and i have no choice now but to regret the past any grief for the innocent souls who were victims of the circumstance.

I have now taken a different turn and have vowed not to break anymore hearts because I, at a point had to pay dearly for my actions as i suffered a brutal,un-understanding breakup. The aftermath of a breakup is just a nightmare in the day.

The aftermath of a breakup is definitely one of the hardest processes in life to go through, especially if your ex was your "first," as in your first girlfriend or boyfriend. The time it takes to recover may take two weeks to two years. There's no doubt that if you still like them, from time to time, you still think of ways on how to get your ex back.

Perhaps the following things still affect you.You go to the library to try and get some studying done and firmly say to yourself, "You know what, my ex isn't important right now... what's important is trying to pass this exam." It happened to me on campus too u know?

You're doing well for the first ten minutes, and then the problems start getting harder and more confusing. As you delve deeper, random words, symbols, and numbers start to remind you of your previous girlfriend or boyfriend. You try to shake it off and take your eyes off your textbook, only to see a nice couple holding hands walking pass right in front of you.

Now your mind is completely on your ex. Hahahaahaha....... just like you see here

You pack your books, and head back to your apartment.As you are driving home you turn on the radio. You've never really paid attention to music lyrics, now you wonder why every song is either about love, sex, or a breakup. You keep changing the radio station but there's just too much "love" going on. You turn the radio off. You can't even listen to one song of the Beatles anymore. Rock and R&B also don't do much help. Why did Ne-Yo have to sing a song called "So Sick of Love Songs."

Even though it was one of your favorite, it can't be listened to anymore.You get home and your friends call you to invite you out for dinner and a movie. You go out to 'jamm' with them but it's not the same. You feel restricted to talk only about what your friends are talking about, instead of just comfortably talking about anything you want.

So for the most part, you politely sit there pretending to know what's going on, but inside something is missing.Things cant just be right,'massa' Of course, you're going to smile as much as you can to make it seem like everything is alright. After all, you don't want to burden the party with your sorrows.

Finally you guys watch the movie. As the movie plays, you miss the feeling of cuddling next your ex and their skin softly touching yours. Usually after the movie you just ramble on about what you liked or disliked, but with your friends you are a little more reserved with your opinions. Anyway,"Opinions they say are like noses"


You thank them for taking you out, and head back home again.

The aftermath of the breakup process definitely hurts and getting back together with your ex isn't completely out of the picture.its still ringing bells. You can try if you still care..For me i never did ever in my life.I always let go..But that is because there was always a queue.dont mind me and dont take my footsteps my dear, u always must follow your heart.

You can still win your ex back even after a hurtful breakup.Remember, dont try to payback."Two wrongs will definately not make a right"Im out!!

Appreciate your Mother

A man was sick and tired of going to work every day while his wife stayed home.
He wanted her to see what he went through so he prayed: 'Dear Lord: I go to work every day and put in 8 hours while my wife merely stays at home. I want her to know what I go through. So, please allow her body to switch with mine for a day. Amen!' God, in his infinite wisdom, granted the man's wish. The next morning, sure enough, the man awoke as a woman. He arose, cooked breakfast for his mate, Awakened the kids, Set out their school clothes, Fed them breakfast, Packed their lunches, Drove them to school, Came home and picked up the dry cleaning, Took it to the cleaners And stopped at the bank to make a deposit, Went grocery shopping, Then drove home to put away the groceries, Paid the bills and balanced the check book. He cleaned the cat's litter box and bathed the dog. Then, it was already 01P.M. And he hurried to make the beds, Do the laundry, vacuum, Dust, And sweep and mop the kitchen floor. Ran to the school to pick up the kids and got into an argument with them on the way home. Set out milk and cookies and got the kids organized to do their homework. Then, set up the ironing board and watched TV while he did the ironing. At 4:30 he began peeling potatoes and washing vegetables for salad, breaded the pork chops and snapped fresh beans for supper. After supper, He cleaned the kitchen, Ran the dishwasher, Folded laundry, Bathed the kids, And put them to bed. At 09 P.M . He was exhausted and, though his daily chores weren't finished, he went to bed where he was expected to make love, which he managed to get through without complaint. The next morning, he awoke and immediately knelt by the bed and said: - 'Lord, I don't know what I was thinking. I was so wrong to envy my wife's being able to stay home all day. Please, oh! Oh! Please, let us trade back. Amen!' The Lord, in his infinite wisdom, replied: 'My son, I feel you have learned your lesson and I will be happy to change things back to the way they were. You'll just have to wait nine months, though. You got pregnant last night.'

OOOoooh I Love my Mum what about you?

True Love

It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly

gentleman in his 80s arrived to have stitches removed from

his thumb. He said he was in a hurry as he had an

appointment at 9:00. I stood and watched his vital signs as he took

a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone

would be able to see him, I saw him looking at his watch.A nurse at the ward since was not busy with another patient, decided to

evaluate his wound. On examining it the nurse saw it was well

healed, so he talked to one of the doctors and got the needed

supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound.While the nurse was

taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another

doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a

hurry. The gentleman told me no, that he needed to go to

the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.I inquired

as to her health. He told me that she had been there for a

while! As she is a victim of Alzheimer's disease.As we

talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.

He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had

not recognized him in five years now.

I was surprised and asked him, 'And you still go every

morning, even though she doesn't know who you

are?'He smiled as he patted my hand and said,

'She doesn't know me but I still know who she is.'

I had to hold back tears as he left, I had goose bumps on my arm

and thought, 'That is the kind of love I want in my

life. True love is neither physical nor romantic.True love

is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and

will not be.Peace is seeing a sunset and knowing who to

thank. The happiest people don't necessarily have the

best of everything; they just make the best of everything

they have.I hope you share this with someone you care

about, I just did. Life isn't about how to survive the

storm but how to dance in the rain.The road to success is

not straight. There is a curve called Failure, a loop

called Confusion, speed bumps called Friends, red lights

called Enemies, caution lights called Family. You will have

flats called Jobs.But, if you have a spare called

Determination, an engine called Perseverance, insurance

called Faith, a driver called Almighty God, you will make

it to a place called Success.

Take this quotes for your day

"Anything in life worth having is worth working for."

"Success often comes to those who dare to act. It seldom goes to the timid who
are ever afraid of the consequences

"Success is never ending, failure is never final

"I just love when people say I can’t do something because all my life people said
I wasn’t going to make it."

"Great thoughts speak only to the thoughtful mind, but great actions speak to all
mankind.

"Obstacles are those frightful things you can see when you take your eyes off
your goal

"It takes a strong fish to swim against the current. Even a dead one can float with
it."

"You will never find time for anything. You must make it."

"Remove failure as an option."

WHAT WOMEN WANT IN MEN

What I Want In A Man, Original List ... (at age 22)



1. Handsome
2. Charming
3. Financially Successful
4. A Caring Listener
5. Witty
6. In Good Shape
7. Dresses with Style
8. Appreciates the Finer Things
9. Full of Thoughtful Surprises
10. An Imaginative, Romantic Lover


What I Want In A Man, Revised List ... (at age 32)


1. Nice Looking - preferably with hair on his head
2. Opens car doors, holds chairs
3. Has enough money for a nice dinner at restaurant
4. Listens more than he talks
5. Laughs at my jokes at appropriate times
6. Can carry in all the groceries with ease
7. Owns at least one tie
8. Appreciates a good home cooked meal
9. Remembers Birthdays and Anniversaries
10. Seeks romance at least once a week


What I Want In A Man, Revised List ... (at age 42)


1. Not too ugly - bald head OK
2. Doesn't drive off until I'm in the car
3. Works steady - splurges on dinner at McDonalds on occasion
4. Nods head at appropriate times when I'm talking
5. Usually remembers the punchlines of jokes

Kissing Tips You Should Know

Here are some basic, yet important kissing tips

Great Breath

This is very important. Make sure you brush your teeth before going out on your date. There is nothing worse than kissing someone with bad breath. If your date consists of having something to eat before the actual kiss, make sure you have a mint on hand to take right after you finish eating. Don't take the mint just before the kiss or chew on gum. You don't want to have something in your mouth when you kiss.

Moist Lips

You want your lips to be slightly moist when you kiss. Run your tongue over your lips once before you kiss. Don't wear lip gloss because that tends to make the kiss too gooey. And don't wear a lot of lipstick unless you want your partner to wear it too after the kiss. Slightly moist lips makes it easier to move your lips over your partner's and gives both you and your partner a more pleasant experience.

Positioning

Stand close to your partner. As the two of you move closer together tilt your head slightly. If you can see which way your partner's head is tilting, tilt your head slightly in the opposite direction.

Close Eyes

Just before your lips meet, close your eyes. Some people prefer to leave their eyes open during the kiss. But until you know what your partner prefers, it is best to close your eyes.

Open Lips

Open your mouth slightly and place your lips over your partner's lips. Do not hold your breath! Breath through your nose. As your lips meet, press them gently over your partner's. You may wish to move your lips in a slow, circular motion or just leave them still over your partners.

Closed Lips

This is like the type of kiss you'd give your grandma or aunt. Instead of opening your mouth when your lips meet, keep them closed. This is also a good way of letting your partner know this is as far as it goes. It also makes a great hello/good-bye kiss or a great first time kiss if you're nervous.

Faith

Petr Čech of Chelsea F0otball Club in his protective headgear after the suffering a butt.

Petr,even though not phisically fit believes he can still make an impact in the history of football.With faith u can do all things exceedingly beyond imagination. Believing you can make it is one thing,and having the faith is also another.believing is human feeling but having the faith is backed by heavenly direction or guidance.

A woman who lived in a country town wished to sell her house and furniture.

It was in the winter with snow so deep it was almost impossible for cars or wagons to reach her door.

As she had asked God to sell her furniture to the right person for the right price she was unmindful of appearances.

She polished the furniture, pushed it into the middle of the room and prepared to sell it.

She said: "I never looked out of the window, I simply trusted God's promises."

In miraculous ways people drove up and all the furniture was sold, and the house also, without paying any commission to an agent.
Faith never looks out of the window, it simply prepares for the blessing asked for.